If we justify certain behaviors on the basis of natural desires, we must apply the same logic consistently. Men also have natural desires, including the urge to seek visual pleasure from others. Yet, in the context of a committed relationship, society often views this as inappropriate or disrespectful. If it is ethically wrong for men to act on these desires, then the same standard should arguably apply to women. Mutual respect in relationships often requires setting boundaries around the pursuit of external validation, regardless of gender.